Sunday, October 12, 2008

Closing Time

Sorry that it has been so long since our last post. The last few weeks have been fairly busy with work and friends. Andrew preached a sermon at the Baptist Student Union two Thursday ago, which required a lot of time to prepare. Time well spent; Who wouldn't want an excuse to spend hours studying the Bible.

We also had a friend in town who will be going overseas for a couple years. While he was in town, he stayed at our apartment. When Andrew was cleaning the guest bedroom, to set up the bed (which had been propped against the wall), he felt like he was just moving boxes and junk around the room. It felt like those puzzles where you move the pieces around to make a picture. He had to move 3 boxes to the left to move the mattress 3 ft. Then move a cabinet out to move the desk over for the boxspring to rest on the ground. Needless to say, I think we are ready to move into our new home. :)
Speaking of homes, we close on Thursday of this month. Our realtor has given us instruction on what to do when we close. One suggestion that he gave us is to take everything the Title company offers us. Why you ask? Because we're paying for it! He told us that if they offer us a pen, take it. A bottle of water, take it. Even if we don't want it, take it!

We are going to try and box up as much as we can before Saturday because Andrew's family is coming down from Santa Fe with some goodies. Andrew's very generous uncle and family are giving us their fridge. In addition we are getting a chest style freezer and recliner that belonged to Andrew's Grandma. Praise the Lord for those things!!! We are so grateful for the ways that He blesses us through others.
Cameron is getting a little anxious to get things moved in so that she can get the baby room ready. As she describes it, "The nesting phase is setting in". She also wants to have a bag ready for the moment when the hospital visit arrives. It's hard to imagine that in a month or so we will have a son. It's scary and exciting all at once!

Also this week we celebrated 2 birthdays. One for our friend, Chris, who was staying with us. And two, Amanda, Andrew's sister. For Chris we surprised him with dinner at Chili's, always good. For Amanda, she was surprised to receive a traditional British Tea Party at our apartment. The tea party consisted of 3 courses ranging from Asparagus and Ham sandwiches to Blueberry scones with lemon curd. Of course there was a different tea for every course. And as tradition holds, quotes about tea were read during the party. We think that Amanda had a good time and it was fun getting it together.


Cameron: TBA But we can tell she's getting bigger every day.



















Andrew TBA But probably nothing since he hasn't worked out for a week :(

Monday, September 22, 2008

Getting close

Sorry that it has been so long since our last update. We've been fairly busy "becoming adults". Andrew's sister says that the only people in Las Cruces are college students and old married couples with kids. Andrew asked her, "Where does that put us?" We like to joke about what "growing up" means. Andrew used to think that "growing up" meant having kids and a home. But now he thinks that growing up is when you retire. I think that we are just nervous.

The last few weeks have been a rollercoaster as we have been trying to figure out where we would like to live. We have been shown dozens of homes and had narrowed it down to one specifically. We put in an offer and had to wait until the next day to hear back whether or not they accepted it. Andrew was having a lot of second thoughts and Cameron rode the fence. She would say "I just don't know". We found out the next day that they had countered the offer.

In some ways, because of our anxiety, we felt relieved so that we could turn down the home. But we were encouraged by our realtor to go back to the house, review the warranty and offer, and talk about it. We were glad that we did!! We decided that we really liked the home and put in another counter offer. It's almost like Deal or no Deal on television, as we slam down the cover on the button.

Turns out they accepted our offer on Friday and now begins the hectic process of obtaining a home mortgage loan, inspecting the property, getting it appraised, notifying our current landlord of the intent to vacate, and pulling our hair out. Are you taking notes? We feel as if we have become experts on various aspects of the home purchasing process. Speaking of home inspections, there are a lot of really flashy websites for home inspectors. We found one that you might like: http://www.mesillavalleyhomeinspections.com/. Or how about this one: http://propertyinspectionconnection.com/

In our spare time we have been registering for baby stuff, house sitting, and working. Cameron says that she looks tired in the picture we have posted. I think she is.

Cameron 17lbs +






















Andrew 13lbs -

Monday, September 8, 2008

Third Trimester here we come!

Hi everyone!

We are now into week 28 of growing a baby (the Third and Final Trimester!)and everything is going well:)
The house search is still on, but a few leads have come up. We are trying not to be too picky but want to make the best investment at the same time... it takes a lot of energy to buy a home! We are still hopeful that we will be somewhat settled into a home by the end of October- - -wouldn't that be great?
Last week Cameron was showing Andrew some maternity photographers' websites and mentioned that he could take some maternity photos just as well as they did. Andrew agreed that he would sometime and then said, "Hey the lighting looks good in the living room. Let's take some pictures right now." Here is a sample of some of Andrew's (spur of the moment) Maternity Gallery:







This past weekend we got to spend some time up in the Cloudcroft area with a group of college students that are a part of the Christian Challenge Ministry at NMSU. We were leaders over a small group for this weekend and are trusting the Lord that it went the way it was supposed to. Although we can't speak for the students in the small group we found that preparing for the retreat taught us a lot. The weather was beautiful and we were spoiled by how nice our accomadations were.


On Sunday our Sunday School class took a trip to Rudy's BBQ and Bob O's together. We had so much fun, but everyone left exhausted from the heat and activity. One of the fun things about being pregnant right now, is that there are two other couples in our class who are also pregnant. One gal is due around the same time Cameron is and the other gal is due at the end of January. Our Sunday School leader and his wife just had a baby as well as our friends Vanessa and Josh. Talk about something being in the water! It sure is nice to get to share pregnancy stories and learn from the experienced moms and dads in our class. Maybe our children will all be friends some day?





Weight Watchers for this week:

Cameron's weight gain: 13.5 lbs

Andrew's weight loss: 13 lbs

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Sickness!

We are starting in on week 27! And are sorry that we are a week behind keeping you up to speed on this growing family!

No matter how many times you wash your hands...
Andrew caught some sort of stomach bug last Friday and was out of commission for the rest of the day and night. He got nauseous after walking into Pepe's Chicken and it smelled like sewage:/ yuck! After that there was no turning back and no holding down anything until about 4am the next day. Cameron slept on the couch that night because every time he would wake up and move he would throw up. Poor guy! He was also running a low grade temp, but not high enough to take action against. By Saturday he was feeling much better and started holding down water, then crackers, then Gatorade and lastly soup. His stomach muscles ached for days after being used over and over! Cameron disinfected the toilet, sinks, light switches, handles/knobs, cell phones and remotes. All linens were washed that Andrew used and the throw up bucket Lysoled down after what turned out to be the last use. Cameron washed her hands as frequently as you know she would, but it was no match for getting sick herself...
Although Cameron didn't catch what Andrew had, while at work on Monday she started to feel achy all over, nauseous, loss of appetite (which hasn't happened for 16 weeks), and over-all sick. She was instructed by very caring co-workers to stay home the next day and rest. She slept all that night and most of the next day. On Wednesday she returned to work feeling well rested but her stomach still was "off." She was sent home a few hours early because her whole abdomen began to cramp and it radiated to her back. The pain was different from anything else she had felt during the pregnancy and made her want to double over at times. The pain lasted for about 30 minutes before she called her midwife. After taking a Tylenol and lying down at work, the midwife called back and instructed her to go home. Staff has been tight at work and it really bothers Cameron to leave her co-workers even more short staffed. But they were all very insistent on her going home and so she left. The baby is very active in her belly and the heart beat is normal. Cameron continues to ache, but is feeling much better when she is just resting. Better safe than sorry.
In other news we are still looking for a new home and will be out with our realtor again tomorrow (Lord willing). I think we are going to find one soon! I can feel it;) Or maybe that is just the baby pushing harder and harder against my insides!
Our siblings (Amanda, Stephen and Leigh) are all moved in a settled for the most part and we really like having them so close. School is getting into full swing and we look forward to getting to see them more often as they get used to there new schedules and surroundings.

And the scale says:

Andrew has lost a total of 12 pounds:)


























Cameron has gained a total of 13.5 pounds (she lost a half a pound over the past couple of weeks)

Thursday, August 14, 2008

And the beat goes on

Howdy and welcome to week 25 of Baby Dye and his family:)
Andrew and I spent the past week traveling with his family to Colorado and had a great time:) We went up to Santa Fe on September 8th, drove to Greely, Colorado on the 9th, spent a couple of days in Denver, Colorado and then got back today (Sept 14th). We got to visit a number of the Dye Aunts, Uncles and Cousins as well as several very good friends! While in Colorado we went to the famous Casa Bonita, the Denver Mint, the Celestial Seasonings Factory, the Capitol Building in Denver, Garden of the Gods, and watched a Rockies game from some great seats (thanks Aunt Cathy!) to name a few. While in Denver we also got to see a precious new life come to join our dear friends Mark and Sarah Mayfield. What a blessing to get to feel that little baby girl inside Sarah's belly and then get to hold her a couple of days later! What a gift:) Maybe little baby Dye and Hannah Mayfield will hit it off in the future??
Us at the Garden of the Gods



Us holding little Hannah Joy Mayfield :)






On our way back to Cruces, we got to eat breakfast with our good friends Juli and Roque in Albuquerque. It was a good time of catching up and just hanging out with friends who are planning a move soon:(
We had another baby appointment this afternoon and again the midwife felt that everything was going just as it should:) We heard the heartbeat sound off loud and clear and although the baby wasn't very active during the trip from Santa Fe to Colorado and back again, once we started back to Las Cruces he wouldn't stop dancing in there! Thank the Lord!
The search continues for a home and we will be going out on a tour of more homes in the morning with our realtor:) We will also be helping my Mom, Amanda and Stephen with a little bit of moving to their new homes tomorrow as well. It is going to be a busy day!:) My little sister is going to be joining the NMSU legacy this Fall and we will be helping move her into the dorms Sunday:) We look forward to having so many family members near by!

Weight Watchers Reports:
Cameron has gained a total of: 14lbs!!



























Andrew has lost a total of: 12lbs, but may have gained a few over the vacation!!

Saturday, August 2, 2008

Sweet Home Las Cruces...

With the addition of another member of our family, our current living accomadations are not optimal. We discussed several possibilties about what might be the best decision. We have decided to shop for a home. This is a huge decision and step in our lives, but we feel that it is a wise move.

We met with a realtor the other day and he is very nice and helpful. Since we only gave him a price range for a house, some of the houses that we looked at were a bit, well...ghetto! Take one for instance.

This house was 3200 sq. feet, which is humongous, however, the size did not really matter. Every room had different flooring; two had blue carpet, one had roll out linoleum tile, others had marble tile, another had tan carpet. The rooms with blue carpet had blue walls. The realtor was funny when describing each room. He said, "Well, if you really like blue, then you'll really like this room."

The house used to have a pool, but the previous owners decided to get rid of it by filling it completely with gravel. Our favorite room was the master bedroom, which had a 5X5 ft. bathroom in the middle of the room, jutting out from one wall. Outside the bathroom, against the wall, was a bath tub/shower....in the bedroom. The carpet went right up to the bathtub. We joked that you could literally, roll out of bed into the shower, which Andrew might enjoy.

However, we did see some really nice homes in the price range we were looking for. We are going to continue to look, as the realtor has a lot more homes to show us and now has a little better idea of what we may be interested in. He said that currently, it is a "buyer's market" and that there are over 1,500 homes in Las Cruces for sale. That's incredible!! We just don't want to see any bedroom/bathroom combos.

On a totally different subject, Cameron is feeling the baby move a lot more. Sometimes the baby will have shifted to one side, enough to distort the shape of Cameron's stomach. Eeeww. We are still amazed when we can feel and see the baby punching and kicking!

Cameron is continuing to gain weight and Andrew the opposite. We are excited to watch the pounds shed off and pile on. We realized that when we take pictures, they can be deceiving, however. Notice Andrew's pictures side by side. It appears as if he has lost 50 pounds instantly, depending on how he is standing and how loose his shirt is. It may be time to buy some new clothes.


Andrew -11 lbs.



























Cameron +10.5 lbs


Friday, July 25, 2008

Of Rednecks and Samurai Gremlins...

Well, here we are in week 22. We were joking that there really isn't a next milestone in this pregnancy, except for the actual birth. Let us explain. See, first there was the initial appointment where we took another pregnancy test to confirm. Then, there was our first ultrasound, where we got to get a glimpse of our baby boy and hear the heart beat for the first time. Then, of course, the gender-defining ultrasound. So, now the next mile marker is the birth, which is 4 months away. It has gone by so quickly though.
Yesterday, we wanted to go out to eat at a restaurant for lunch. We were initially headed for a favorite Chinese food restaurant that Cameron has, but to our dismay, it was closed for "vacation". So we decided to go to our favorite mexican food restaurant, but, in a last second decision, chose to try something new.

There is a little restaurant called "Break an Egg", like "Break a Leg". Get it? Eh? Eh? Anyway, we walked in and it was a very neat place, but also extremely sad at the same time. It's one of those feelings when a pork place opens up in a jewish neighborhood; It's probably not going to make it.

Anyway, we sat down and ordered some coffee and water. When Andrew added some creamer and stirred it, he noticed that there were little white floaties swirling at the top. After asking for another cup, he opted out of the half and half.

On top of the coffee, a lady sitting behind us kept making noises. It sounded like she would be really enjoying her food by going "Mmmm" and then shortly after, she would make a "hawking a loogie" noise. Every couple minutes there would be a "Mmmmm....Huchgggk". When the food came out, we tried to make the best of it, but it got the best of Andrew. The next day, Andrew felt like there were "Samurai Gremlins" fighting in his stomach and spend most of the afternoon laying down and running to the restroom. Needless to say, we probably won't be going back to "Break an egg" restaurant.
Tonight we went to a birthday party for a friend. The theme of the party was "Redneck". We dressed up and went to the party and had a good time. We decided to take our update while in full redneck garb.







Andrew -10 lbs. Hooray!




























Cameron: +9.5 lbs